Well since we weren't lectured on some new experience or went anywhere this week, I might as well thought of bringing up and share my own life experience. This week is about ego.
This quite an interesting but sensitive topic to post and previously I had to think about it and how to write it in a way that it hurt others much. Well this is what I came up with.
Ego means a sort of emotion that triggers the human needs in wanting to show something that he/she is/was great at doing something and has the urge on telling it to someone to show their accomplishment. However the only difference between letting others know in a non or egoistic way is by the tone or how often it is said by the owners mouth.
Things that I notice from whatever information that I obtained from experienced people or egoistic themselves is that they have the urge in showing off ego is because they want attention. Some people tend to depressed and feel the lack of attention faster than others. This may however be the affects of their (egoistic) background, surroundings. It may be the effects of being neglected by everyone, their families or friends. Neglect-ion from the family causes the child not the be corrected and thus attraction is needed and this 'ego' habit is brought up either by self or influenced by friends.
The other interesting reason that stumbled on was that egoistic may happen because of we humans tend to try or make ourselves look better than others. Only that not all of us are bold enough to show it to others. But as for our egoistic, they tend to have a habit where they must show it off. It's a way for them to tell to the society that they are not those who should step on or bullied by. Other than that it is also a way to tell that they are knowledgeable and not out-dated and they are important people of the society. By having this done they fell themselves (egoist) something needed/wanted in the society and not trash, and have hopes into continuing their lives.
Egoist tend to leave their mark everywhere around, but their favorite place is in the internet. Markings that most (probably all) egoist leave on the net are things like 'flamers', 'threats' and many other (mostly) negative behavior.
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